Sunday, March 27, 2011

Statusuppdateringar...

Its been some time since I last posted something here. I've been doing so much that I didn't have the time to write anything here. Anyway, I have been searching for things to inspire me to write. Anything. So siguro kaya ako nagsusulat ngayon dahil inspired ako? Hindi naman masyado. Hehehe.

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I've been hooked sa isang koreanovela ng GMA7. Alam nyo ba ang "Temptation of Wife"? Hahaha! Magpapaka-jologs na ako pero ang ganda nya talaga! Hahaha! Ayun yung tipong inaabangan ko sa TV kapag 5pm na. Or kapag pauwi na ako, ayun ang pinapanood namin sa bus! At eto pa! I've been watching it online din sa wat.tv para ahead ako ng ilang episodes!

Basta. Ang cool ng plot though hindi na talaga sya makatotohanan. I recommend na panoorin nyo sya. As in now na! I've been thinking if I could study Korean na din dahil doon. Pero hindi ko kaya. Hahaha!

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By the way, 5 months na kami ni Bebeboy. He actually has a project this April which is very dear to him. And just like what a good and well behaved boyfriend should do, sinusuportahan ko lang sya. I really have no idea when it comes to the things he and Joe likes pero support lang ako ng support. Hahahaha.

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Summer na pala. Ang init na naman. Nakakatamad gumalaw. Gusto ko magswimming. Gusto ko pumunta sa beach! I miss the sand, the waves and the vibe!

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What else to write?

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I have just submitted applications for credit cards. Nagpasa ako ng 3 applications sa iba't ibang bangko. Ewan ko lang if they will approve it. I was kinda hesitant din kasi at first kasi ayoko mangutang. Credit cards are a fancy way of borrowing money. I'm proud to say na wala akong utang kahit kanino. Kahit magkano. So kapag nagka-card ako, magkaka-utang na ako? As far as I know, when it comes to finances, I'm very wise and I always, ALWAYS, live within my means. Gusto ko lang naman magka-credit card for emergency purposes. Kung pwede nga gusto kong limit ng card ko hanggang 10 thousand pesos lang eh at mababa pa ang interest rate (may ganun ba?)

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I want to study more languages. I know that I have been focused more on European languages pero I think it's gonna be better kung may alam din akong Asian language aside from Filipino. I plan on enrolling to a Japanese language class this summer.

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Gusto ko pa din sumali sa PBB. May auditions pa ba?

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Ano pa kaya ang pwede maisulat dito?

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I love you Luch! Happy 5th!

Friday, March 4, 2011

älskarinna

I was browsing online when I found this. It made me smile a bit. Medyo nakaka-relate lang din naman kasi ako kahit papaano.

The 28 golden rules for mistresses by Ms. Julie Yap Daza in her book "Etiquette for Mistresses."

1. Mistress is not Mrs. Know your place.

2. Even if he tells you he loves you more than his wife, don’t let that go to your head.

3. Mistresses should be ready to give up Valentine’s Day, Christmas Day, New Year’s Day, Holy Week and his birthday (that’s why mistresses are also called “holiday orphans" because of this).

4. Befriend his secretary but avoid all contact with his driver (Whether he is a company driver or the family driver, the chauffeur is not to be trusted. Family drivers owe their allegiance to whoever pays them their salary and who feeds them the free meals in the kitchen with the other help. In short, they are loyal to the Mrs. more than the Mr.).

5. As tempting as it seems, don’t patronize the wife’s beauty parlor, jewelry shop, dress shop, or father confessor.

6. Don’t call him, wait for him to call.

7. To be seen with him in public once is risky. The second time could be fatal to one of you. The third time is The End for both of you (love is lovelier when it’s forbidden. Because it’s forbidden, it’s supposed to be hidden).

8. Never believe, and never say anything unfriendly about his wife, not even after he recites a litany of her faults.

9. Mistresses are kept by rich men. But a mistress who is a woman of substance and independent means is better (Translation: Don’t ask him for money).

10. Be discreet (Make sure he is not the type to talk in the sleep).

11. Never travel together (Accidents will always happen. You can never tell).

12. When he breaks a date, charge it to fate, not his fecklessness (Men will be boys. They will forget to call. They will break a date at the last minute. They will stand you up. They won’t explain and they won’t ask for forgiveness. But don’t cry nor throw a tantrum. Don’t break down because a mistress is supposed to understand a man more than his wife does).

13. Wives have their own networks of spies and amigas. It is helpful for the mistress to have her own. A chaperone is not a good idea, however (Chaperones are passe. Besides, they talk).

14. Mistresses don’t complain (They shouldn’t. It’s the wives, according to the husbands, who are “always complaining").

15. Being No. 2, the mistress tries harder.

16. Send him home as soon as it becomes apparent that he’s overstaying.

17. It is practical for a mistress to be linked to another man, preferably her lover’s friend.

18. If he’s a public man and you’re thinking of staging an accident of running into him, think: How many accidents can I pull off in one month?

19. Don’t make unnecessary enemies of his children.

20. Remind him to pay for everything in cash – dinner, flowers, perfume, champagne, pearls, diamonds, a microwave oven, etc….

21. Don’t use tears as a weapon. He’s probably had enough of that from the Mrs. (Wives nag. Wives cry. If only for that reason, a mistress doesn’t use tears to get what she wants).

22. Resist the urge to be found.

23. Perish all thought that someday you’ll be No. 1.

24. Married men who keep mistresses don’t like surprises, as a rule.

25. A man with a mistress leads a double life, his mistress only a half life. Cheer up! A career will make you whole.

26. Resist the urge to shower him with gifts. Evidence, evidence….!

27. When in doubt, disappear.

28. When all else fails, leave him.

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It is wrong to have an affair with someone na alam mong may ka-relasyon na. Lalo na kung may asawa na. (At sa akin pa talaga nanggaling iyon? Hahaha!)

Just recently, nagkaroon ng teambuilding ang mga officemates ko. Hindi ako sumama kasi ayoko lang. At tsaka wala naman kasi ang head namin kaya at may mga sumama na hindi naman talaga doon sa company namin nagta-trabaho kaya hindi mo din masasabing teambuilding iyon. Anyway, madami palang revelations ang nangyari doon.

May mga chismis na na-confirmed. May mga loveteam na nabuo. May mga babaeng naghalikan. May mga lalaking nahubaran. May nag-quickie sa CR. May mga nalasing. May mga nagkasakit. Madaming nangyari. At buti na lang hindi ako sumama.

My boss has a wife and two kids already. Actually, his wife just gave birth to their 2nd child. At first, I think of my boss as a real family man. Until I found out that he's having an affair with my officemate. Nagulat lang ako. Im a friend of my officemate. May napapansin na ang iba kong officemates about my boss and my officemate pero sa akin naman ay walang malisya yun. Tama pala sila. Mahina lang ang pang-amoy ko sa mga secrets.

Nalungkot ako. Para sa wife and sa kids.

Human beings are very complex. Matalino tayo. Pero hindi ko talaga alam kung paano mag-isip ang tao at kung ano ang nagbabago sa ating pag-iisip kung tayo ay nagmamahal na. Well, at least I think that my boss and my officemate love each other. I think.

I just hope na mahal nga nila ang isat isa. At sana hindi ito makakalabas at lalong huwag makakarating sa wife. Naawa ako sa kids.
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Sabi sa Rule Number 7, love is lovelier when it's forbidden.
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I can only speak for myself when it comes to this matter. Just like what I've been saying in my previous posts, mahal ko si Luch. At alam kong mahal nya din ako. Bihira lang ang ganitong set-up (sa tingin ko). Bahala na ang ibang tao sa pag-iisip. Basta ang alam ko, masaya kami at nagkakilala kami at naging iisa. Mahal na mahal ko si Luch higit pa sa aking pagkatao.

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Början Av Mars

Waaaaaah! Ang busy ko ngayon. Hindi ko na nga naa-update ang blog na ito eh. Siguro, natutupad na nga ang sinasabi ng Chinese Horoscope ko na swerte ang taon na ito pagdating sa work and career.

For the past weeks yata, kung saang saang company yata ako pumunta. Nagsa-submit ng resumes, applications, interviews etc...

Eto yata ang highlight ng mga na-applyan ko...

French Speaking Call Center Agent - I passed all the exams and initial interview. Syempre, pabibo din ako. Ako yata ang pinakabata sa lahat ng nag-apply. Hehehe. They scheduled me for the final interview. Patay. Everything, as in everything, was conducted in French. So at first, chismisan lang kami ni ateh, in French, para nosebleed habang nagkakamustahan. Matagal na pala si ateh sa kol-se-ner na yun. At laking Belgium ang lola mo kaya pala magaling mag-French.

So may konting role play. Ako yung top, sya yung bottom. Joke lang. Hehehe. Siya daw kunwari ang customer at tumatawag siya dahil hindi gumagana ang computer nya. Nalula ako. Nakalimutan ko na ang mga technical terms in French. Pero at the end of the interview, I did well naman. Napagana ko ang computer ni customer. We bid goodbye na. Whew! Masaya ako hanggang lumabas ako ng interview room.

May mga susunod pa pala sa akin sa interview. Ang isa ay anak ng OFW na laki sa France. Isa naman ay isang East African na native speaker ng French. At ang isa ay kararating lang din ng Pinas mula Belgium. Inisip ko. Wala na ang dream ko! Sayang ang offer na 65k per month!

News Reporter - In-schedule na ako for the final interview with the department heads. Nasa shortlist ako, in other words. Magandang opportunity sana ito for me pero this is really not my thing. Current events was never my forte. Lalo na ang local news. The salary offer was really not that attractive and the working hours will drain your energy. I know this is a great opportunity for some of those people out there. But I don't see working as a news reporter. Kaya lang naman ako nag-apply dito kasi sinamahan ko lang ang friend ko. Sana kung may lifestyle program sila na kelangan ng host, or for entertainment, AKO NA LANG sana kuhanin nila. Hahaha. Hindi ko pinuntahan ang aking final interview. Instead, my interview was rescheduled to Monday. Puntahan ko pa kaya???

VTR's and Go-Sees - Madami! This week nga yata halos twice ako in a day pabalik balik ng Makati dahil sa mga auditions na ito. At least madami! Mas malaki ang chances na makuha! At syempre, maraming cutie at hunks in all shades and shapes ang na-sight ko. Hehehe. Pero syempre, behave ako. Love ko kasi si Bebeboy :D

I have a new commercial coming up. Shooting is on this weekend. And I have another ad campaign with a mobile phone company coming soon. Sana talaga, magtuloy tuloy na ito! Hahaha! Sana maging artista na din ako para madaling mag-apply na congressman or senador. Hehehe.

By the way! Mag-audition din tayo sa Pinoy Big Brother! Sige na! Sabay sabay tayo mag-audition! Hahaha! I wanna be famous, I wanna be a star, I wanna be in movies!

I want to study Japanese! Nanay ko naman ay Haponesa pero ewan ko ba kung hindi nya kami tinuruan mag-Japanese nung bata pa kami. Kaya ngayon, naghahanap ako ng Japanese language school na magaling pero magaan sa bulsa. May mga suggestion ba kayo?

Madami na din akong priorities. Mukhang nagseseryoso na nga ako sa buhay. Pero syempre, joke lang yun. Hehehe. Madami pa akong kakaining bigas. Pero kelangan ko muna isaing yun para hindi masakit sa panga.